Self Defence


 

Once Ma-tsu and Pai-chang were walking along
and they saw some wild ducks fly by.
"What is that?" the master asked.
"Wild ducks, "Pai-chang replied.
"Where have they gone?"
"They've flown away," Pai-chang said.
The master then twisted Pai-chang's nose
and when Pai-chang cried out in pain,
Ma-tsu said, "When have they ever flown away?"


(Koan)

Focus

It is tempting and common to imagine that the
world revolves around you, but it is also a mistake.
No one
person is the focus of existence.
To the individual this may sound unappealing but it is the
truth.

Peripheral

Existence moves and changes constantly as vast numbers of
relationships develop, evolve, fade and pass.

Millions of creatures interact every day, the world hurtles around the sun at 18.5 miles per second and none of this has anything to do with you.

Every facet of the world moves in some inconceivably complex ballet of change.
Your role is utterly peripheral.


You matter

Everyone matters.
You are immensely important
.

But your importance needs to be balanced by perspective; everyone else is immensely important too.
Just as every blade of grass matters, every cow, sheep, star and insect.


Personal

The world teems around you and you are an intricate part of everything.
Just be careful not to take things too personally.

When something unpleasant happens, the effect it has on you may be inadvertent.
You are not the always the focus.
Whilst knowing this may not diminish the effect, try to have perspective.


Potential

When you see that any one individual has the potential to be of great service to humanity, it is inspiring.
Great deeds are accomplished by immersing yourself in the doing and forgetting the self.

Everyone has such potential.
It is sad when so few realise this and squander their lives in boredom and apathy.
Still, what you do is up to you - your choices make you who you are. 


Lost

A deluded person believes in their own mythology - they fall prey to the tinsel of celebrity and the trap of vanity.

Only when you see the floating world for what it is can you swim in its pleasures without getting lost in your own ego.


Tai chi

Learning tai chi can be immeasurably frustrating for some people; their impatience causes suffering.
They push and push, yet make little progress for all their additional effort.
Tai chi cannot be willed into being.

The difficulty lies not with the tai chi but with you. It is you that must change, grow, develop.
The tai chi has no life beyond you; it is you that performs the movements, you that must relax and you that must let-go.

If you decide then to push yourself, ask: who is it that is doing the pushing?




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