
Living in cultures with a Buddhist tradition, like Nepal, Laos, Thailand and
Japan, provided me with a compelling insight into the fact that any religious
undertaking, once institutionalized, would result in predominantly empty forms,
superstitions, dogmas, and rituals, away from the living essence of truth.
(Michael Krohnen)
Addressing the teacher
Respect is the first consideration in a martial arts class.
Traditionally, it is demonstrated through formality: bowing to the teacher
and other students.
In a karate class the teacher is addressed as 'sensei'. In a kung fu class it is 'sifu'.
Tai chi
classes often forgo the formality and the teacher is
usually called by their first name.
The formality may not be present in a tai chi class, but the respect
should remain.

Showing respect
You can show respect to your
teacher without being formal.
Good
manners are all you need.
You can show respect to other students by ensuring their
wellbeing during
partner work and helping them out if they are less experienced
than you.
Being respected
Everybody
deserves respect.
Not because they have
done something or because they are 'someone'
- even a stranger should be respected.
The
Art of War
teaches you to respect your enemies.
In a tai chi class, your attendance and perseverance will gain you greater
respect.
Disrespect
There are many ways to show disrespect but bullying and arguing are the
worst.
Martial arts classes seldom tolerate either.
This is why we have a
code of conduct.
You must also show self-respect by being clean and looking after yourself
properly.
Parity
Even though your
teacher may be called 'Dave' rather than 'sensei' do not
mistake the informality to mean parity.
In terms of knowledge and skill you are not equals.
Your teacher has designed a
syllabus which contains information you cannot understand
until you have completed it.
They spend considerable time and effort coaching,
guiding, assisting you.
Their patience, care and understanding is shown in the way that they teach
you.
Contribution
A
beginner,
intermediate or experienced level student lacks the necessary experience to
comment on the
inner workings of the syllabus.
With
patience, what seems to be lacking in the syllabus will be
addressed as the student progresses through the material.
With rare exceptions, less advanced students do not
contribute to the knowledge of the school.
They add nothing significant to the teachers own knowledge.
An
advanced level student looks at progress in terms of decades.
They can physically 'do' the tai chi and can discuss complex aspects of the
syllabus with the teacher on a more equal footing.
Their insights are informed and considered, with a strong foundation in both
principle and practice.
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