Self Defence


 

You often say, "I would give, but only to the deserving."

And who are you that men should rend their bosom and unveil their pride,
that you should see their worth naked and their pride unabashed?

(Kahlil Gibran)

Learning

To learn, a person must let go of what they already know and be prepared to embrace the unknown.
Everything that you know is in the past. The unknown cannot be known.

Learning must begin by letting go.
There is nothing to be afraid of; it is natural to be uncertain, to have doubt, to be ignorant. 

Thought and reality

Reality simply exists, whereas thought is how we regard reality.
The two are seldom the same.
In tai chi, conscious thought is considered to be a form of tension, of anxiety.
In order to see reality as it is, we must remove the barriers that impede our minds.
Krishnamurti
, taoism and zen all help this process.
 

Preconceptions about tai chi

Many people have seen an example of tai chi-like exercise and have some idea of what they think it is about.
These ideas are often flawed because knowledge can only be based upon what you have personally experienced.
If you try and shape tai chi to suit your impression of what the system is about, can you truly claim to be performing tai chi at all?
To learn, you must let go of your memories and opinions.


Letting go of stress

Letting go begins in the mind and spreads throughout the body.
Unless we can relax our thoughts and let them cease of their own accord, the body will not loosen.
Stress is the straining process between one thing and another, the prolonged conflict between reality and our idea of how it should be.
Without resistance, there cannot be stress.

Tai chi is the art of balancing ourselves with reality, of letting go and moving with tao.
The Japanese poet Basho wrote haiku about Chuang Tzu and a butterfly.
He used the butterfly as a perfect metaphor for drifting without concern.


Letting go of anxiety

What is anxiety?
Is it not a state of worry in which the mind considers various future possibilities and attempts to avoid problems by anticipating what will happen?
Let go of anxiety.
Worry comes from fear of failure.
If you fail, so what?
What is the worst thing that can happen?
Be spontaneous.
Be alert and alive, capable of moving in any direction without anticipation.
Respond to what is happening in the world, not to the worries of your mind.
To quote from the Christian tradition:
 

Which of you for all his worrying can add one day to your life,
one inch to his stature?

So don’t concern yourselves so much with the means of life;
what you shall eat or drink, or with your bodies,
and how they should be clothed.
Life is more than clothing.

 Consider the lillies of the field;
they do not spin,
they do not weave,
but not even Solomon in all his glory was so arrayed as one of these.

 (Jesus of Nazareth)




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