Self Defence


 

Take no thought of who is right or wrong or who is better than. Be not for or against.

(Bruce Lee)

 

Open

Tai chi is concerned with the opening and closing of the body as you move.
Most people are quite closed-up, so the
opening part is hard. Opening requires you to let-go.
This is easy to say but far harder to do.

Can you let-go of what you
think? What you believe? How you respond? How about the past?

Most people are so thoroughly conditioned by their upbringing and culture that letting-go may seem almost impossible.

But it isn't.
You must want to let-go, and be prepared to take a risk...


In your mind

Psychology has a large part to play in tai chi.

Your state of
mind is manifested physically; and if you are agitated, hurried, anxious and opinionated, the exercise may feel like torture.

Tai chi cannot be forced or coerced, pushed or reasoned-with.
You just have to let-go.
And for many people this can be the hardest thing in the world; partly because they do not really want to give up the
illusion of being in control.


Inhibitions

Inhibitions are unusual things; they represent an unconscious resistance to stimuli.
The
question to ask is: are they real?

What causes the restraint to occur?
Why do you suppress, deny, ignore?

Education trains you to be obedient, to participate in society and conform to its rules.
You are taught how to behave.
Impulses and emotions are stifled as you become increasingly conditioned to satisfy the requirements of a demanding culture that views humans as tools.

Taoism invites you to question the necessity of inhibition.

Drawing the line

There are some boundaries that a person has no wish to cross.

You should never feel pressured to do what feels uncomfortable.
Trust your own instincts and feel confident saying no.


Barriers

If you have a boundary, consider its existence.
Is it conditioning?
Or is there something deeper that stops you?

Understanding the nature of your own mind is very important in tai chi; you need to be free from unwanted baggage yet respect the things that you feel are worthwhile and necessary.

Be conscious that some barriers can impede the release of tension.

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